There is accepted that those who send their kids to school
abroad have money and live very comfortably. This wasn’t the case with my
parents. Years of sacrifice and financial constraint were familiar visitors
that at times came to live with us for some time, as much as we resisted them.
Amidst these visitors also lived the greatest hospitality I have experienced.
Recently I was told that at one point in time and space, up to 15 people lived
with us in our home in Festac, Lagos, Nigeria. As a child I remember aunties,
cousins, uncles and people who weren’t related staying with us. To my earliest
cognizance, my parents have always opened up their hearts and homes to whoever
was in need. I always attributed this to being the way all Nigerians are until
my grandmommy corrected me by saying, ‘it’s your parents’. After spending time
with my mom’s sister and brother here in Nigeria, I’ve seen this attribute also
in them. Maybe it runs in the blood? I certainly pray so.
the woman herself |
Some have asked what I do day to day for work here. Technically I work for a government branch, but my real work here is serving as the Director of my mother’s Foundation. I believe this is what I’m in Nigeria to do this year- to help her establish this Foundation, and I’m happy to say we are well on our way. I've just come home from a long hardworking day 2 of our widow's summit- gathering women to learn very feasible, sustainable trade for steady income. We expected 50 women, and on the first day 75 eager beavers showed up. Day 2, word of mouth spread and we had more. At the end of the 3 days, the outstanding performers will receive sponsorships to begin their businesses. Our mummy who teaches the classes was able to send her daughter abroad for studies with this type of business. REMARKABLE! $100 alone can alter the trajectory of a widow's life. Consider being a part.
We are looking at undertaking subsequent training in the coming months & long term we want to expand beyond Nigeria and Ghana and execute some projects across east Africa.
Delta State widows summit- A skill acquisition workshop focused on vulnerable women acquiring trade for sustainable livelihood. The top 5 winners will receive sponsorship to start small-scale businesses and we set in place evaluation tools to track progress with the expectation of the women turning profit and growing their businesses.
Official
inauguration of Blessing O. Foundation.
With special guests of honor in attendance, we will commensurate the
organization’s launch as we celebrate and hear testimonials of people who have benefited from the foundation while also raising funds for upcoming projects.
To learn more, please visit our website- bofint.org.
There is a blessing that comes with giving to widows and orphans. If you want to give, the website will direct you on how.
I tell people in the U.S.
that right now a dollar goes a long way here, so sending something easily makes
impact here on ground. Join us on this adventure. I’m certainly honored to
serve under a woman with a great heart and one who constantly spends herself on
behalf others.
Here's a testament to the work we're doing on the ground. I couldn't say it better myself. Blessings!